This weekend, after the recent suicide of famed fashion designer Alexander McQueen, I found myself chatting with many people about what it all meant. Having many friends in the fashion industry, it was sad to see that this news, though upsetting, was no surprise to anyone.
It is not a secret that the fashion industry is survival of the fittest. Unfortunately, sometimes even the fittest have their waining moments. Having strong, independent and smart friends I have come to see through many personal stories that working in fashion can shatter even the strongest of spirits. The expectations are erratic. Minimal pay. Long hours. Making the impossible possible. Wearing designer goods without the cash flow. A long rise to the top, a quick fall to the bottom. All sweat, no glory. If this sounds like you, don't worry, you're not alone. It's rough, even for those who have the dedication and backbone.
It makes us fashionistas in the industry question our paths. Why have we decided to put ourselves through all of this? How important is it really? I mean, it IS only clothing, right? Sure we love the creativity, expression and glamour of it all. But when you find yourself short on time for loved ones, losing sleep over the next big trend, sleeping at the office (well basically) and feeling small and irrelevant, it is hard to justify working in an industry you were once in love with.
The short of the long is this: work hard, play hard and don't let anyone tell you what you can't do (thanks LOST). Always trust in yourself, and if you feel like you are being the victim of fashion cruelty, you probably are. At this point you either get out while you have some dignity left or bitch and complain like the rest of us while we continue our fashion ascension to the top.
See you there.
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